5 Simple Home Feng Shui Tips For Relationships

1- Start your work in the bedroom. There are many things you can do in a single afternoon that will greatly improve the flow of chi through your bedroom. Clean out under your bed, while this will cut down on your storage space, having nothing under your bed is one of the most effective feng shui tips there is. This will help in all aspects of your life, not only in relationships. It is impossible to draw abundance to an area that is cluttered. Introduce red, pink and white into your decorating scheme. This can be something as unobtrusive as two white candles on your bedside table to painting one of your walls a creamy pink. Decorate with pairs of items, not a single candlestick or three ornate boxes. Groups of two's work best. The bed should not be in a direct line with the doorway if at all possible, this is another general feng shui tip that works well in the relationship area. Finally, do not bring anything unrelated to either sleeping or relationships into your bedroom. No work, no family photographs, the bedroom should be a sanctuary where you do not feel pressured (by work) or watched (by your family).

2- Maintain or develop a group of helpful friends and social contacts that are like minded (if you are seriously looking for a relationship, your friends should not be dragging you to bars every night). This seems like an obvious tip, but ultimately, many people stay with the comfortable, what they know relationships, even as interests change. This rule does not mean to sever friendships, only that you are going to have to move outside your group of friends to develop new, understanding and helpful friends with the same goals and objectives as you. Most people would not hesitate to "network" for work, but feel uncomfortable doing the same in their private life. This is a key tip... You need to spend time with like minded people.

3-When placing items in your home or participating in activities related to your relationship develop the habit of doing things with conscious intention. It is not enough to do a favor for your spouse because it does not inconvenience you. You should do this for the sole purpose of pleasing your mate. Likewise, when you are cleaning out under your bed, or searching for the perfect set of photograph frames, you must say to yourself, "I am doing this to enhance my relationship, and to draw abundance into my life." Be intentional and conscious about everything you do, there are no accidents, and you are not doing these things half heartedly.

4- If you are single, make a detailed list of what you would like in a companion. By forcing yourself to think about a mate in these black and white terms you are more likely to recognize a potential mate when they come along. Too many times what we think we are looking for is not the same as what we really want. Writing down your "must haves" will make it apparent what is really important.

5- Make changes bit by bit. To try to revamp your entire bedroom, house or yard at one time would be overwhelming. If everything you do is going to be intentional, then a great deal of thought is going to go into each change that you make. By trying to revamp your entire house in one weekend you will not be able to pay attention to each step along the way, and will only be setting yourself up for burn out and disappointment.