Will Advice: Tips For Distributing Money Inheritance Among Children

This article will give readers information about dividing up their estate in matters of a will.

It's very important to have a will. Although it seems morbid and it's not very fun to think about or talk about when you die, unfortunately, it's part of life and needs to be done. It will help your family out when you do pass away to know that they are fulfilling your last desires and wishes, and you will most likely be able to sleep easier for the rest of your life, knowing that if you were taken, you would have all of the essentials taken care of.

Unfortunately, finances do come into the picture when you pass away. It's extremely important to have your estate divided up exactly how you want it in your will. If you die without a will, most states have a law that says that they will receive a third of your estate, and your family will be out that money. If you wish to leave money to your children and/or grandchildren, you will need to take care of this as soon as possible.

Sometimes, finances can break a family apart. You must keep this in mind when you are drawing up a will. How will you decide who gets what and why? You want to take care of this with the utmost care since you don't want a feud to break out after you pass on, and you don't want any of your children to feel neglected or feel unloved or favored in any way. The best way to handle this whole situation is to treat everyone as fairly as possible.


If you have any children that have disabilities, it might make sense for you to leave more money to that child. You would still want to leave something to your other children as well, but if a child of yours has a disability and could never live on his own, it just makes more sense to leave the most money to him. It would also probably make the most sense to let your other children know about this right after you write up your will, and let them know the reasoning for this. They should definitely understand! However, it is good to be open about things like this.

If you have grandchildren, again, you want to distribute the money amongst the grandchildren as fairly as possible, just as you would with your own children. People can smell even a hint of favoritism, and this will not end well if someone feels like they are not the favorite. Your best bet is to divide the money up as evenly as possible, and as aforementioned, if there is some valid reason which everyone would understand why one child would receive more money, it's best to let everyone know beforehand and state the reasons why (even if they are obvious).

Even though this can be a delicate matter, and is sometimes hard to talk about, it really is best to get it all out in the open, rather than having everyone be surprised and/or dismayed on the day when you die. You don't want everyone fighting over money after you've died. Hopefully, everyone would be at peace with each other and not worry about something as petty as money when a loved one dies, but there are no guarantees.

Good for you for even thinking about this in advance. Far too many people put this off for various reasons, but a mature and responsible person gets this done, even though it is hard.

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