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Scents can arouse as the chemicals send messages to your brain. Essential oils are very concentrated and direct application is impossible as it causes burns or damage to your nose. You can perfume your underwear or clothing by letting the scent molecules adhere to your clothing.
For romance, you can use either orange, jasmine or black pepper. If you want more excitement, use clary sage, rose or cedar wood. Take 3 cotton balls and apply a drop of essential oil on each. Place these in your underwear drawer or your clothes wardrobe. Allow about 2 hours for the scent to diffuse into your clothes.
For scenting other items, do the same. Avoid applying essential oils directly onto cloth as there will be stains. If you want to sleep soundly, try scenting your bedsheets. Use 2 drops each of clary sage, neroli and chamomile.
To get your partner to relax after a hard day at work, use a head massage with essential oils. This may help him / her relax and be in a conducive mood for romance. Mix 2 drops of lavender, rose and geranium into a teaspoon of almond and jojoba oils each. Rub this oil on your hands and then massage your partner's forehead gently. Rub outwards towards the ears. Next, proceed to using circular motions to massage the forehead.
Touch can be used to invoke mood. To get your loved one into a romantic mood, you can try to soothe his tired neck. You'll need 2 drops of black pepper , ginger and ylang ylang each into 2 teaspoons of sunflower and grape seed oil. Use this oil mix to massage your partner's neck form top to bottom of the neck. Squeeze the muscles at the base of the neck. For any massage to be effective, repeat for about 10 times.
The same formula of oil can be used for a back massage. Start by placing some oil between the shoulder blades. Massage from the center outwards, using both hands. You can gently squeeze the muscles and rub the oil in. Work downwards until you reach the bum. The rest is up to your imagination.
There are a variety of aromatic oils to use to excite the senses. If you're using scents, then apply the oil drops to cotton balls and let the smell penetrate the room or clothing. For any massage oils, you need to mix the aromatic oils in a base oil to prevent burning your skin. The rose oil is an all time favorite for romance. You can try different combinations of essential oils that promote romance. Later, you can stick to whatever works best for you.
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