How to help a nervous toddler enjoy the characters at Disney World.
1. Take your time: In all likelihood, you will spend a whole day at Disney World. When you first arrive, everything is new and different for your toddler. So, while you may be raring to take photos of Mickey and Minnie first thing in the morning, consider letting your toddler warm up to the idea. Talk about meeting the characters and walk by a few before you approach one. Go on a mellow ride first. A little time will help most kids adjust to the environment so they are ready to try new things.
2. Start small: Many of the Disney characters are really big, even from an adult's perspective. From a toddler's view, they are enormous and anything that big can be scary. First, spend time looking at some of the animated characters in the shop windows. Then, move onto watching at some of the smaller actor characters. For example, Alice in Wonderland, Cinderella, Snow White and Sleeping Beauty are usually small women and are non-threatening in appearance.
3. Look, but don't touch: Visit some characters without actually touching them. Mom or Dad can mention to the character or the handler that Junior is a little wary and just wants to say "hi" without getting hugs or shaking hands. The character actors would rather be warned than feel responsible for making Junior cry. Suggest waving to the characters or even blowing them kisses instead of getting up close and personal. Watch an older sibling visit with a character. Also, some toddlers who will not approach a character on their own two feet are perfectly happy to pose for a picture as long as Mom, Dad or another loved one holds them. Watching the parade is another great way to look at a lot of the characters from a "safe" distance.
4. Seek out a really beloved character: All characters are not created equal. Not only are some of the characters downright scary - avoid all witches with toddlers on their first visit - some are just less compelling than others. So, look to the truly beloved ones to help a toddler become accustomed to visiting and posing for pictures. Each child will have their own favorites, but Winnie the Pooh and Minnie Mouse are favorites for almost every timid child.
5. Check into special events: Often, there are special events that feature the characters, such as the "Character Breakfast". This can be a low-key way to introduce your toddler to the characters in a more confined environment than in the big crowds at the park's picture spots. The extra fee is often well worth the individualized attention and the event provides a warm-up for the rest of the day's fun.
6. Know when to let it go: Some children simply do not want to meet the characters up close and personal or are not ready to conquer their fears yet. It is up to you to gently suggest and then let it go if the issue is going to cause angst. As much as you'd like a photo of Junior with Mickey for the family Christmas card, it is far more important for everyone to just have a fun day at the park. So, give it a try and then relax and enjoy the rest of the day.
