Playgroups can be a very valuable resource for new moms. Not only do they provide stimulation for babies, but they also provide moms with a great place to get connected. Below is a discussion of the benefits that joining a playgroup can provide for your baby.
Months 0-3
For Babies:
Although very young infants often seem oblivious to the world around them, nothing can be further from the truth. Even when an infant seems to be staring into space, he/she is learning something very important. In the early months, playgroups provide an opportunity for young babies to be exposed to their peers for the first time. This interaction, though probably limited, can provide infants with an introduction to expressive language and play. Though a baby has been listening to the voices of his/her own mother and father since being in utero, being involved in a playgroup teaches them that the world extends beyond their own home and parents. Recognizing that the world is filled with many people who have different voices may help young infants to become more outgoing children.
For Moms:
Perhaps the greatest purpose of participating in infant playgroups is so that moms can have an opportunity to share ideas, fears and experiences. This is especially true for new moms who may sometimes feel inadequate. Experienced moms can share their “know-how” with new moms, in a laid back, casual environment. Additionally, playgroups sometimes serve as a much needed social support system for moms where they discuss not only their children, but also their marriages, families, careers and other interests. The friendships made through playgroups are often meaningful and long-lasting. After all, moms whose children are the same age, rarely have a lull in conversation.
Months 3-6
During 3-6 months, babies become much more aware of their surroundings. More particularly, babies at this age really start studying the faces of others and learning about both their own and the emotions of others. Being involved in a playgroup allows babies of this age to learn how much fun it can be to interact with others. Just place a few five month old infants together on the floor and watch how intently they stare at each other. Though they usually won't play together, they "parallel play" and really learn as one watches the other.
Additionally, at this age, babies are beginning to discover their own voices. Playgroups give them an opportunity to learn the proper way to speak and react to other people. For example babies can learn the proper protocol of speaking to other people by watching their moms speak to other moms. Additionally, participating in a playgroup can provide moms with a place to learn new strategies for teaching and interacting with their babies.
Not only do playgroups give infants an opportunity to practice verbal and listening skills, they also provide a great opportunity for young babies to practice their newly found ability to imitate others. It’s not uncommon for a young baby to showcase their ability to perform a skill that his/her parent has been trying to teach through imitating another child at his/her playgroup. Though the child’s parents may have spent countless hours teaching the skill seemingly to no avail, seeing another child perform it might give the baby the initiative he/she needs to attempt it on his/her own.
Months 6-9
There are many valuable things that babies can learn from being involved with a playgroup during months 6-9. During this period, babies make great strides in eating, becoming mobile and talking. Being a member of a playgroup allows babies a chance to see other babies act out the same things that he/she is learning. Moms are also able to learn new strategies on a wide variety of subjects, from teething tips to games to play with their growing babies. Additionally, playgroups often serve as great support systems for moms whose children may be facing certain health or developmental issues.
Months 9-12
During 9-12 months, babies start showing real signs of becoming independent toddlers. As they begin to pull up and take their first steps, some mothers may find that their babies are much more interested in their “friends” rather than sitting with mommy. At this age, being a member of a playgroup can help babies over coming separation anxiety. Also, as their babies get older, moms often take turns being the “babysitter” during the playgroup time. This gives all of the moms involved much needed “kid-free” breaks.
Finding a Playgroup
Very often, moms can find playgroups through other friends who are involved in one, or by getting involved with one through churches, schools, and other organizations. If there is no playgroup available in your area, consider starting one. Begin by calling one or two moms that you know might be interested in starting the group. If you don’t know any moms who have babies the same age as yours, try performing an internet search to find some. You may be amazed to meet so many moms who are just like you.
