How to boost a man's ego
Every man needs his ego boosted once in a while. Here are five areas that every man needs help with.
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Don't you love to hear how beautiful you are? Don't you feel wonderful when your partner lets you know how smart you sound? Well, men also like to have their ego boosted. In fact, they need it just as much us. If you think your man is in need, there are five ego boosters that you should pay particular attention to: Love, Sex, Body, Mind, and Money.
Money. Men have been brought up thinking that they have to be the provider. Also, they want to know that their wives are happy with what they contribute to the finances. If you complain about not having the material things you want, or need, they take this as sign that they are not providing adequately. You will see that by letting your man know that you are content, you are actually boosting his ego. It’s one of the simplest tasks there is. So, let your man know that you are happy with your house, car, and most importantly his paycheck.
Sex. This is an obvious one. Men want to feel that they are the best. It is our job to make them feel that they are. The cardinal rule is to never bring up another man before, during or after sex. I mean, not even to say that your man is so much better than anyone you've ever had. This will only make him wonder, "Is she comparing me to other men?" Also, call him by his name and avoid vague titles like baby. When you say baby, you could mean anyone. If you say his name he will know that you are talking just to him.
Body. Body is different from sex. He wants to know that he not only feels good, but he looks good, too. He may not express them, but he has hang-ups about his body, too. Find out what he is self conscious about. This may be anything from his chin to his eyebrows. Then, make it a point to compliment them. Women often think that we are the only ones who care about appearances, but men go through this, too.
Mind. A man also has a need to feel smart. That doesn't mean that we need to play dumb in order to accomplish this task. Women think that men only care about being strong, brave, and good looking, but this is not true. While they don't want a woman who is as dumb as a rock, they want someone who won't talk over their heads or correct their grammar.
Love. It is not enough to love your man, you have to show it. Men need affection as much as we do. He wants to know that there is no one else that can take his place and we need to accomplish this. It is not ok to forget the little things like saying thank you, or holding his hand when you are watching the television.
You may think that men are simple, but they are very complicated. Although they want to be appreciated they won't come out and tell you this. You'll have to figure this out by paying attention. Everyone man is different, but if yours is giving you signs that he is not happy, maybe he needs an ego boost in one of those areas that I have talked about.
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