Is your spouse or partner cheating?

Ever wake up from one of those realistic dreams that your partner or spouse was cheating on you? You just want to roll over and glare at the back of their head as they sleep, despite the fact that it was only a dream. However, for some couples, the nightmare is real. Partners frequently become anxiety-ridden at the mere thought their partner may be cheating on them. It is one of the worst feelings in the world to have that doubt in your mind about your partner’s fidelity. Issues of trust, loyalty and love all come into play as you rehash things your partner has said, places your partner has been and people your partner has talked to. Here is a list of some signs that your partner may be cheating. Of course, this does not mean that if one or even all of the signs fit your partner, he or she is cheating. This is simply a list of actions that many cheating partners often resort to as indicators of infidelity.

Telephone Calls

Sure, if your partner runs his business out of his home, he may be getting tons of calls from clients or prospects, so do not immediately jump to the conclusion your partner is cheating on you. However, if your partner’s clients or business colleagues do not usually call after 6 pm, and your partner suddenly gets several important calls during the night that he must take into another room, especially when he has never done this before, that might send up a red flag. If you receive calls in the middle of the night or if you suddenly start having calls that hang up on you when you answer, there could be some reason to start wondering. The hang ups could indicate a partner’s mister/mistress who simply wants to hear his/her competition or who did not mean for you to answer; it could also mean you are, coincidentally, receiving frequent hang ups for no reason whatsoever.

Sex Drive

If your partner suddenly begins losing interest in the bedroom or turns cold or tired when the idea of sex comes up, this could possibly indicate that cheating is occurring, especially if they have never demonstrated this behavior before. However, bear in mind that if they are experiencing stress in their lives, due to job or family-related issues, this could also cause a natural decrease in sex drive.

Late or Odd Hours

Perhaps your partner suddenly starts coming home from work later and later or starts going to work earlier and earlier. Maybe he leaves frequently during the weeknight or goes on solo trips during the weekend, when you two used to spend all of your time together. This could be an indicator of an extra-marital affair. You may want to ask your partner where they are going or where they have been and if he or she becomes defensive, you may want to start looking for other signs.

Internet

With the advances of technology, especially with the advance of the internet, it is easier to seek and find others willing to cheat with you. If your husband spends most of his time on the Internet or finds excuses to get on the computer when you are asleep or when you are not at home, this may indicate infidelity. If your partner becomes secretive about his/her time on the web and starts putting passwords on all of his/her documents, this could be a sign that something is going on.

Money

Maybe you handle the household finances. If you begin to notice odd charges on your statement or notice there are many dining out lunch expenses and your partner takes his/her lunch to work everyday, you may want to question their fidelity, especially if your partner becomes defensive about these charges when questioned about them.