Tips and advice on meeting your boyfriend's mother for the first time. As long as you follow these guidlines you can't go wrong.
1.Dress the Part. The outfit you choose to meet your significant other's mother in should be special. Pretend you are going on a job interview for a job you really want. Would you wear a ratty old Pantera t-shirt with holes in it? What about a mini shirt and a low cut top? Of course not.Choose an outfit that you would wear to visit your grandmother's nursing home. Keep it simple! Pick something that makes you feel comfortable and pretty. If you feel more confident than it will surely show in you glowing personality. You can still assert your individuality; just make sure you are being tasteful.
Keep in mind that you aren't limited only to restaurants when you are planning the meeting. You could do something fun and have an event that's truly memorable. How about you go to a play, see a movie, attend a baseball game, go for a hike, take a pottery class, etc.The possibilities are limitless. As an added bonus, if there is an activity going on or something to see, then there will be less pressure to carry on a conversation the entire time. Just make sure you make time for that though, too. She's probably curious about the woman who has stolen her son's heart.
3.Do some detective work. Remember how you were supposed to pretend you were going on a job interview to pick the right outfit? That works here, too. You wouldn't walk into an interview with the CEO without knowing the first thing about the company he runs, would you? Ask your boyfriend what her hobbies and interests are. That way you'll have ready-made conversation starters if you are having trouble keeping up conversation. People generally enjoy talking about things they enjoy doing. Once again she'll likely be impressed you took the time to find out about her.
4.Be genuine about your thoughts of her son. Let's face it: parents everywhere like compliments about their children, no matter how old they are. By letting her know what a gentlemen she's raised you are indirectly flattering her for being such a good mom. And who doesn't like a little flattery?
On the day of your "date" take extra time for you. Take a bath, get a pedicure or relax with a magazine. Choose something that is soothing. Now put on your special outfit, flash a winning smile and you'll no doubt win her over.
