What Is Speed Dating?

Look at it like this: speed dating is like going on a series on miniature blind dates all in one crazy night or afternoon.Unlike a blind date, however, if you do not like the person sitting across from you, you are in luck - they'll be moving on within couple of minutes, and you have zero obligations to see that person again.If you date with some regularity, think about how many of your dates are duds, and how many are wonderful.If you are like most singles, you probably find that about one in five dates qualifies as a "good" match for you.You aren't going to be attracted to everyone that you go on a date with, and you aren't going to wind up in a relationship with everyone you go on a date with.Plus, most people say that they can tell within the first couple minutes of a date whether there is "anything there."Instincts tell you if you are in the company of someone special to your life, or not.So why should you waste your time going on meaningless dates when the deck is stacked against?If you go speed dating first, then you can narrow down your dating search to guys or gals that you already know you feel a spark with.

There are several different types of venues that hold speed dating nights and afternoons.Many speed dating functions take place at restaurants, while others are at bars, country clubs, parks, or even church buildings.Some speed dating events actually incorporate dancing into your introductions to other speed-dating singles - you have rotating dance partners.If you enjoy dancing, this might be the right choice for your speed-dating experience because you will be able to see if your potential suitors know how to bust a move.Some speed dating events are designated for specific age groups, like "20s daters" or "50s daters."Others are targeted at certain groups of people, such as single parents or widows and widowers.If you are looking to narrow down your search by a criteria, you should look for a speed dating event that is targeted at the type of people you want to meet (sorry, ladies - I haven't seen a "Rich Handsome Doctor" event yet).

If you have been timid about getting into the dating scene, speed dating is right up your alley.You can get your proverbial feet wet without completely diving into a full-fledged standard date.If you are feeling uneasy, try to come up with some topics that you can discuss with your fellow speed daters.You should try to give everyone you meet a flavor of yourself.Talk about a hobby you have, or talk about your line of work or your pets.Everyone there is probably nervous, so it helps to have ice breakers on hand.Also, put your best foot forward.Dress to impress; wear something that makes you feel sexy, open, and attractive.Try not to wear colors that will make you look boring, like all black or gray.A little color, especially a bright red or a vibrant blue, will make you stand out in the crowd.