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Step 1
The most common adult toy is the vibrator. Vibrators come in a variety of forms, from realistic-looking phalluses to lipsticks, massagers and rubber duckies. Some are waterproof and some combine vibration with other sensations like heat and gentle rotation. To use a vibrator, first clean the device with mild soap and water or a specially designed sex-toy cleaner, as per the package directions. Add the batteries or plug it in. If your vibrator has different speeds, flip through them to become familiar with the different effects. Take your time applying the different vibration settings to different parts of your vulva or other areas like your anus or G-spot. Clitoral stimulation is the most popular use for vibrators. Once you find a setting and a spot that works for you, lay back and enjoy. You can also have your partner use the vibrator on you. If you are inserting the vibrator, lubrication can help this process along. Also, never insert something anally then vaginally without cleaning it first, as this could lead to infection. Afterward, clean and store the vibrator. Many people use condoms on their toys to keep them clean. Vibrators that take batteries shouldn't be stored with the batteries inside to prevent corrosion and increase battery life.
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Butt plugs can provide excellent stimulation for both men and women during intercourse. They are often used because they provide prostate stimulation in males. Their variety in shapes and sizes rivals or exceeds the variety of vibrators or dildos on the market. They come in longer or wider shapes; they come with or without vibration, and they can be attached to a harness for partnered penetration. To use the butt plug, it is good advice to experiment with a device on the smaller side, be patient and use a lot of lube during insertion. Rectal tissues are not as elastic as vaginal tissues, and are more prone to tearing if stretched too far, too quickly. Don't let that dissuade you from trying. Just start small, go slow and use lube and you will have a great and stimulating experience. If you are a beginner, avoid a butt plug without a flared base, as you run the risk of having difficulty retrieving it.
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Cock rings are small, circular devices that go around the shaft of the penis and the testicles. They trap blood in the spongy tissue of the penis and can make an erection feel harder and last longer. They can be anything from a simple rubber or silicone hoop to an elaborate leather studded ring. Many men say wearing a cock ring enhances their sexual experience. An important note about cock rings is that they can be too tight and damage circulation to the penis, so obviously if you feel any discomfort take it off immediately. To use, loop the ring around the shaft of the penis and push the testicles through the bottom. Adjust as necessary for a comfortable fit. The ring can be applied to both erect and flaccid penises.
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Step 4
Dildos are very similar to vibrators, except they don't vibrate. Most commonly, they are realistic penis-shaped toys in all sizes, but they can also be anything from simple silicone shafts to elaborate sculpted glass. Some come with suctioned bases to attach to a shower wall, toilet seat or other surface. Dildos are also used in harnesses, or strap-ons, to allow one partner to penetrate another, either vaginally, anally or orally. To use, make sure your dildo is clean before and after use. Apply lubrication to the dildo for maximum comfort and insert it into the opening of your choice, or use it for direct clitoral stimulation. It is as simple as that. Try using a condom to cover your toys, which can make cleanup as simple as removing the condom.
